My partner and I work for the same company in Germany. Both have roughly the same experience and do similar work. He is German — I am not, I have moved to the country to be with him. He has just received a rise in his salary and now earns 20 per cent more than I do. Am I right to expect to share our expenses pro rata? I would be happy with the 20 per cent in our biggest expense — rent, and drop it for everything else (food, travel, etc). What do you think? Manager, female, 33
我和我的伴侶都在德國的一家公司工作。我們倆有著差不多一樣的工作經驗,也做著相似的工作。他是德國人——我不是,我為了和他在一起才來到這個國家定居。他剛剛加了薪,現在他賺的比我多20%。我希望按收入比例來分攤我們的花銷,這樣合適嗎?我會很高興能把這20%花在我們最大的花銷——房租上,還有其他一切(食物,旅行,等等)。你怎么看?